Friday, February 01, 2008
LIPS 2008
I have been watching the 10 day weather forecast for Faro, and it looks good so far. Our only concern is getting to Edinburgh airport! It will be great to get the sun on my skin again.
Last year we went to Spain for our innaugural trip, the first day of golf coincided with one of the Ladies birthdays, so we made her wear a hat in the shape of a birthday cake with candles on all day! Thing is, it will be my birthday on our first game of golf this time!
I will post pix on my return - after I have censored them of course!
BTW LIPS 2008 = Ladies In Portugal Spring 2008!! I've even bought us all badges!
Wx
Friday, January 18, 2008
Laser Eye Surgery - an update
I went for my 1 month checkup just before Christmas and was told that my sight was 20:20 but my left eye still had some improving to make! I notice that some days it is my left eye and some days (not as often) it is my right eye that is weaker. This is totally expected as the scarring round the cornea cut is still healing.
My sight is much better than it ever was with contact lenses, so I have no regrets, or complaints. I keep lubricating my eyes with eye drops daily - doing what I am told for once!!
What is really great is being able to get up in the morning and see, to have a shower and see, to be able to go out in the rain and see. Fantastic.
When I sent to Stobo between Christmas and New Year I still had to wear goggles in the pool, I am looking forward to the time when I can swim without them. Some opticians say after a week you can swim without goggles, but mine would rather that I didnt.
I am going to Portugal in a few weeks - it will be brilliant not to have to take all the gubbins with me - more room for wine in my bag on the way home!
Thursday, November 22, 2007
Laser Surgery - the first 24 hours
Monday afternoon was the pre-op just to check that my eyes were still OK and had not changed since my previous check. That was fine. Tuesday saw a trip into Glasgow where I spent a few hours shopping then went for the wavefront scan. This is where they scan the eyes and map them out so that the laser can be programmed to suit the individual eyes rather than just have a blanket prescription which might not be perfect for your eyes. That went well, and then I had a few hours to kill to wait for my pal to finish work so that we could go to her home in town. I got very fed up with shopping - not one of my favourite things! and my feet were sore from walking and walking and walking! I did get some Lush products and got a bargain pair of trousers though!
We went out for a meal and a few glasses of fermented grape juice! then an early night. I was woken in the morning by a JRT jumping onto the bed and tramping all over me - he was just checking that I was OK. Friend's hubby cooked me breakfast and then I set off for the train into town.
I got to the optician's on time, then came the wait. The waiting room was full of patients and their friends/partners/relations waiting for treatment. I then got called in for another pre-op check - still all OK. then back to the waiting room again. Eventually, about 75mins after my appointment time I got called in. A really nice male nurse explained the post op drop regime that I was to follow, then he cleaned my eyes and the surrounding area and told me not to touch them as they were now sterile. He came back a bit later and took my handbag off me - he did say to remind him to give it back as he had a habit of not returning them! LOL. He gave me a lovely hairnet to wear, then led me into the theatre. He introduced me to the team, but as I couldnt see them it was just voices that I was greeting. He then dropped some anaesthetic into my eyes and handed me over to the team.
If you are squeamish miss this bit out:
The next stage was to make the flaps in my corneas. The surgeon put a clamp in my eye to keep the eye open, then attached a contraption to my eye, the pressure was tough to stand, but this only lasted until the flap had been made which ended with a pop! then the same to the next eye. My head was then shifted under the laser machine. Again a contraption was put onto the eye being treated (the other eye was covered by a shield) and I was told to watch an orange light. Then the laser was put into action, there was a slight smell and cranky noises, and the light was quite strong, but this was soon over. Then the other eye was treated the same way. Anaesthetic eye drops were topped up throughout the procedure.
After the op I was told to sit up and was then led into another room where the surgeon checked my eyes and I picked up the eye drops and my handbag.
I then returned to the waiting room and called my pal. I immediately put my dark glasses on as the lights were very strong to my now sensitive eyes.
My pal picked me up and steered me towards the station, she had to lead me as my vision was like sitting in a steam room (not like Stobo though!). She gave me her return half of the rail ticket and put me on the train and told me that her hubby would be waiting for me on the platform which was 6 stops away. I dutifully counted the stops as by now I could not bear to open my eyes. It was as if I had been peeling onions all day and had wiped my eyes with onion hands. Every time I did open my eyes tears poured out and stung. Hubby picked me up and drove me back to their house and I immediately went to bed to try and sleep. The pain was getting worse and I topped up on ibruprofen! eventually I went to sleep and woke up 3 hours later no longer in pain! My vision was a wee bit blurry and I was sensitive even to low level lighting. I sat watching the news with sunglasses on! Hubby made me a cup of fruit tea and gave me a biccie (no lunch). About an hour later I could bear to take my sunglasses off, and my vision was good enough to read the BBC straplines on the news. I was very very tired and retired to bed after the England game!
This morning I woke up and could see. It was brilliant. I made sure I put my drops in - 1 I have to put in 6 times a day, 1 4 times a day, and 1 at least every hour.
I caught a train into Glasgow, then another into Stirling. Then to the optician (after buying a Jasper Conran handbag that I had seen on Monday and couldnt justify the expense, but today it was 20% off!! - must have been a sign). The optician first checked my sight for driving and said I was perfectly OK, then I went on to read ata greater level - that was less than 24 hours after the op! He then looked at the eyes thru his gadgets and was very pleased with what he saw.
My next appointment is a week today, then I will have one at a month, and I think 3 months.
If anyone is considering laser treatment please do ask me questions. I would recommend it, but would say that it would be better to have taken pain killers immediately after the op in hindsight. I had Intralase Lasik with Wavefront - the creme de la creme treatment but worth every penny.
Saturday, November 10, 2007
The Wedding
I drove down on Thursday and picked up 'im indoors from Birmingham airport as he had cut his Bridge and Bowling holiday in Spain short to come for the wedding. My brother and his wife have been an item for many years now - almost as long as me and 'im! But because of one thing and another they were not able to get married until now. I was asked to be a bridesmaid (one of 5) along with my 2 new nieces and my great niece! The colour theme for the day was coffee and cream- the only one wearing white was my new great niece (aged 18 months!). The wedding took place at the Bromsgrove Hilton where my brother and my new SIL first met. It was a lovely day and we partied well into the night -the only problem was that a glass of wine cost £7.45 and a coke cost £2.50! so we were restrained on our drinking which was probably a good thing as we were both fine to drive back today.
I even managed to fit in 3 swims during my stay which was great.
here is a pic of me and 'im indoors with the bride and groom...
Saturday, October 13, 2007
What a busy 5 weeks
what a lot has happened in the last 5 weeks.
My Aunt fell and broke her hip - not a nice experience for someone of 75ish. She was taken into hospital on the Monday and did not get operated on until the Wednesday - she had a pin put in as the break was below the hip joint. We were travelling down to Northhamptonshire for our Nephew's 18th birthday party, so we set off a day early so that we could call in to Birmingham to see Auntie. Thank goodness for Sat Nav - I dont think we would have found Heartlands Hospital without it! We stayed overnight with Mum and Dad which was nice, and it was great to see how Mum was improving.
The next day we travelled to Daventry where we were staying. The hotel was on a golf course, free internet, free coffee, free fruit, swimming pool, sauna, steam room & jacusi - and all for £50 including breakfast for the 2 of us!
The party was something else - I have never felt so old! It was actually our other nephew's 16th birthday on the day, so there were crowds of 16yr old and 18 yr olds! Most of them were hanging around outside the venue, until the music went louder and the lights went lower! We made our excuses by 10pm and went back to the hotel for a decent drink and an early night.
I have managed to play a fair amount of golf during the last few weeks - this has been good for me health wise as well as helping me to relax.
me and my pal Olive (her nickname) have booked for a trip to Stobo Castle on 22nd for 2 nights - she has been to the wedding of her son this weekend, so the two of us will enjoy the break.
So, last weekend whilst playing golf I was discussing the problems I had been having with my contact lenses and that I was considering the laser surgery. Her pal had had it done 2 1/2 years ago and had not looked back since. So I made an appointment to see if I was suitable. That was yesterday.
First I had to wear my glasses for at least 48 hours prior to the treatment - that is a struggle for me as I find it difficult to see with them on and feel very trapped when I wear them. The appointment started with the puff of air in the eye routine, then a check of the prescription. After this I had a chat with one of the girls who was very informative about the whole procedure and explained all the different options that MIGHT be available to me. Then followed the more rigourous tests. I had drops of anasthetic put in my eyes - stingy or what! Then she measured the thickness of my corneas using a probe against the eye - weird or what! Then she put some other drops in which relaxed my eye muscles so that I could not focus - I couldnt even see my watch! Finally she gave me the news that I was very suitable for the treatment, and I could have a choice of every option.
I decided that the Lasik method was preferred as it has the fastest healing time, and did not require a dressing on the cornea. then I had a choice of which method was used to cut the flap in the cornea to give the laser the required access. There is a mechanical method where a gadget is put against the eyeball and suckers onto it. Then this is rotated to cut a flap - a bit like taking the foil off a bottle of wine. The more modern method is to use the laser to cut the flap, a series of dots are made on the eye ball which causes bubbles under the cornea, then alcohol is put on which raises the flap for the surgeon to peel back. The downside of the mechanical method is that the incision is deeper and therefore takes longer to heal - so I decided on the Ultralase method.
The next decision was whether to have a standard treatment which basically gives you off the shelf laser treatment for a standard prescription. This gives you the vision you have with your lenses or glasses, but no better. The Wavefront option gives you a treatment that is specific to you. Your eyes are scanned and any inperfections are noted - these can give you problems with night vision - halos, glare etc when driving. I decided that I might as well go for the top treatment.
So the next stage was to book all the appointments. I have to go without lenses for 7 days before a further check with the optician in Stirling (again with the possibility of the relaxing drops so no driving), the following day I have to get the Wavefront scan in Glasgow, and the following day the surgery also in Glasgow! My pal also has a house in Glasgow, so I will be staying with her the night before and she will bring me home after surgery.
So all booked up after a 2 hour appointment - boy was I exhausted! I went to meet my pal who had driven me down as I knew that I would not be able to drive. She was in fits of laughter as I could not see a thing. Because my eyes were dilated I was suffering from the bright lights in the shopping mall, and I could not control the vision in them. Trying to read labels in M&S was impossible - so she had to read them to me!
I got home and could not turn the PC on as I knew that I would not be able to see it anyway.
This morning my eyes were still quite dilated, but I could put my contact lenses in and I can see - what freedom.
I am so pleased that I have made the decision, even though it is costing mega bucks, but Mum and Dad have offered me a huge sum towards it. I just look forward to being able to swim and use a spa without being worried about water getting into my eyes and lifting my lenses.
Played golf today - not brilliant, but happy with my game. Off to play at a different course tomorrow as a guest of a couple of male pals of mine.
Hopefully it will not be so long before my next blog.
Wednesday, September 05, 2007
Where has the time gone?
'im indoors has been made redundant so now only has a few weeks to get a new job before his last pay packet. Very stressful, and to top it all he has to sell his flat which is nearer Glasgow than here as he cannot afford to keep it on without a job. Thing is that having the flat opens up job opportunities in Glasgow, without it there is a lot of commuting to do - horrid situation really.
My brother and his fiancee brought Mum and Dad up to visit on Saturday and we have spent the last few days together until they left this morning for the long drive down south. Mum thoroughly enjoyed her visit and I think it did her the world of good. She managed to do some gently walking, each day managing a little bit more - after all she has been more or less immobile for 2 months. I would have loved to have spent more time with my brother and his fiancee, but it was good for Mum and Dad to spend time with me. My brother has a lovely Boxer called Bruce who is 3 years old and worth a small fortune apparantly - they insisted that he is my nephew!
What a gorgeous brute he is.......

All is quiet now that they have all gone home, so I spent the afternoon digging up roots of shrubs that have got past it and some brooms that have self seeded where they were not wanted. I am now exhausted and am sitting with my feet up watching Beechgrove Garden (a brilliant Scottish gardening programme - much better than Gardener's World in my opinion).
On Sunday, my neighbours decided to cut 2 rather large trees down that were planted on the boundary of our two gardens - they were far too close to the houses and actually touched my roof, so down they came. We had my neighbour and my pal on chain saws, the youngest son of my neighbour (age 12) scooting up and down trees putting on the line for us to guide the trees down to the ground, and then some of his pals and his older brother on wheelbarrow duty clearing the logs. My neighbour's wife provided us with bacon rolls after she returned from church and then helped us to clear the fallen branches and later burnt them in the field. It is so amazing what a difference these trees have made to the amount of light coming into both of our gardens.
Last friday was the last junior golf session of the year, so we had our prize giving. We had 41 children between the ages of 8 and 17 playing golf, these were later joined by parents and siblings so you can imagine what the noise level would be like. They were very well behaved, and enjoyed the meal provided for them. It was great handing out the prizes to the kids and seeing their response. After the prizes "the oldest junior" (now no longer playing with the juniors, but working behind the bar at the clubhouse) presented me with a card and golf gift voucher from all the parents - this was a total surprise and totally not expected - to me it is just great to see how well the kids have improved over the year - that is the biggest present of all.
Now to start turning my mind to winter activities - drama, curling, living!
Lets hope it is not another 2 months before I blog again!
Thursday, July 05, 2007
More about Stobo
I first went to Stobo about 4 years ago when him indoors won a voucher for a day including 4 treatments. He very kindly gave it to me (aaahhhh – wasn’t that kind of him?) Anyway, we decided that we would meet up and spend the night in a B&B about 5 miles away and make an evening of it, so I duly set off really early in the morning to be at Stobo for 9am (might as well get the most out of my day!). As soon as I set foot in the Spa Reception I could feel the relaxing vibes in the place and I was hooked. That first day was packed with treatments which did mean that I could not spend as much time in the pool as I would have liked, but that too was good because I then learnt that I didn’t need all the treatments to feel relaxed.
The following year I persuaded 3 of my friends to come with me and stay overnight for 2 nights – if you only stay one night I felt that you did not get as much benefit as you are not allowed to check in until 3pm and have to check out at 12 the next day (you do get lunch though!). We stayed in the castle lodge which is new and costs £99 pppn Mon- thur and an extra £15 pppn over the weekend, the only disadvantage is that you have to walk across the car park to the spa, but you do get a mini-bar & fridge in the room, plus 2 double beds in a twin room & lcd tv on the wall. Although this sounds expensive you do get 3 meals (and big ones!) a day plus the use of the spa facilities, well-being classes (yoga, tai chi, aqua-fit etc), gym, walks round the grounds and bikes(I think). What is nice is that everyone walks around in robes (supplied) all day, so there is no keeping up on fashion/style etc. (not that I do – clothes are just there to cover my body!).
The following year we could not get into the lodge, so we took standard rooms in the castle. This costs an extra £20pppn, but we were so desperate to go and my friend had arranged respite care for her husband, so we paid. The rooms were nice, but no mini-bar or fridge and the beds were singles. The advantage was that we did not have to cross the car park – esp good as it rained the whole time! This time we got upgraded to a classic room in the castle for no extra charge. The room was lovely and the beds were big, but again no fridge!
OK, so you might have got my drift with the fridge? It is common practice to take your own drink for your room, so as I thought we were going to be in the lodge I took white wine, and my pal took G&T (doesn’t drink wine!), so what to do – unchilled wine and G&T would not do!! My pal is so resourceful – in the Ladies Health suite there is an ice fountain which spews out crushed ice for you to rub over your body when you come out of the steam room (lovely), there is also a spin drier for your cossie and a roll of bags to put your cossie in. So what does she do? She fills a bag with crushed ice and hides it under her robe, unfortunately it becomes too cold against her skin, so she takes a towel (always on hand) and wraps it up in that and brings it to the room to fill the sink so we can chill our drinks! The next night she borrows my shoe bag style rucksack and fills that! She even had the cheek to ask for a lemon from the spa coffee shop - although the first night she did use her nail scissors to slice it!
What I really love about Stobo is the atmosphere. It is so calming. In the hydrotherapy bath there is a jaccuzi at one end, big water jets in the middle to massage your back and shoulders, and relaxing bed things at the other where you can lie and be gently massaged by water bubbles around you. If you lie there holding onto the bar (metal not drink) behind your head you can float looking up at the starry lit ceiling. There are 3 ladies steam rooms and one mixed by the pool side (there is a gents health suite, but I haven’t been in there so I don’t know what is in there), each steam room has different settings, the first is not really steam but more gentle warm heat – you could read a book in there, the next one is steamier, and the last is very steamy. There are also showers where you can have different settings – tropical rain for example. Then the pool – my favourite. Ozone treated, all one depth (which is good for the aqua fit) and one side of the pool area is glass which looks out over the grounds. Fantastic.
No, before you ask! I don’t get commission for Stobo, but I just thought I would share with you my experiences and explain that it really is good value for money and you feel so relaxed all the time. I can just lie on my back in the pool, eyes closed and I feel totally at one with myself – what is that worth?